How Many Counselling Sessions Will I Need? A Therapist’s Honest Answer

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How Many Counselling Sessions Will I Need? Let’s start with the truth most therapists won’t sugarcoat: healing isn’t linear. Some people find clarity in just a few sessions, while others need months—or even years—of support. And that’s okay.

Your journey is uniquely yours.

🧠 What Influences the Number of Sessions?

Several factors shape how long you might be in therapy:

Your goals: Are you seeking short-term support for a specific issue, or deeper healing from long-standing trauma?
Type of therapy: CBT (Cognitive Behavioural Therapy) often runs for 6–12 sessions, while psychodynamic therapy may be open-ended.
Frequency: Weekly sessions offer momentum, but biweekly or monthly sessions may suit your lifestyle better.
Readiness and engagement: Therapy works best when you’re emotionally ready and actively participating.

❤️ Short-Term vs. Long-Term Therapy

If you’re dealing with a recent life event—like a breakup, job loss, or anxiety spike—short-term therapy (6–10 sessions) might be enough to help you regain balance.

But if you’re unpacking childhood wounds, complex trauma, or patterns that have shaped your life for decades, long-term therapy offers the space and depth needed for transformation.

🔄 It’s Okay to Reassess

Therapy isn’t a contract—it’s a conversation. You and your therapist will regularly check in to see how things are going. You might start with 6 sessions and decide to continue. Or you might pause and return later. There’s no shame in adjusting your path.

🌱 Healing Takes Time—But You’re Worth It

It’s natural to want a timeline. But healing isn’t about rushing—it’s about growing, feeling, and becoming. Whether you need 5 sessions or 50, what matters most is that you’re showing up for yourself.

And that’s something to be proud of.

💬 Final Thoughts on How Many Counselling Sessions Will I need?

If you’re considering therapy, trust your instincts. Start the conversation. You don’t need to know the destination to begin the journey.

If you are wondering what happens in a first session, visit my post What Happens in a First Counselling Session.

If you are not sure which therapy might be best for you, visit my post CBT, Counselling or Psychodynamic: Which Approach Fits You Best?

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Disclaimer:

I am not a doctor so this guide should not be considered a replacement for seeking medical advice. It is also not a substitute for obtaining therapy as other factors, such as trauma, need to be considered.

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